My friend is making a bad decision.

“My friend and her boyfriend broke up after dating for over a year.  Three weeks later, she says, ‘he’s changed.’  How do I love her well when I don’t think people can change that fast and I think she’s settling?” Oh yes. The ever occurring question: What’s a girl to do when our friends make decisions that […]

I don’t want to live with her again.

  “I currently have two roommates but only want to live with one of them next year.” You’ve only been at school for half of a semester, but it’s already that time when students start discussing their living situation for next year.  If you are wondering how to tell your roommate you don’t want to […]

In the mess.

For I am confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. -Philippians 1:6 We all go through seasons of life that are gross, dark, painful, lonely, and messy.  I’ve been “in the mess” several times already in my 29 years and know […]

Communicating in conflict

The fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. -Proverbs 18:2 Think about the last time you talked through a conflict with someone.  Could be your mom/dad, boyfriend, best friend, roommate, classmate (those pesky group projects, oy)… you get the idea. Hopefully this isn’t hard for you to pinpoint.  We experience […]

I gained a roommate & lost a friend.

“Last year my roommate (roomie #1) and I got along so well we decided to live together again this year. We also asked one of my friends (roomies #2) to live with us. Now, roomie #1 is always copied up in her room while roomie #2 and I are getting along perfectly. We have people […]

Roommate Woes

            “My roommate is constantly waking me up in the middle of the night because she comes home drunk.” Oh yes. This one is a classic. For those of you in a similar situation, I’ll let our friend tell more of her story, because I think you will connect. “I […]