How do I find balance?
“How do I balance a social life, good grades, and enough sleep in college?” Welcome to the rest of your life: finding balance. I would be lying to you if I said I had this mastered in college, or even that I am a master of balance now. Business Insider posted an article yesterday […]
How do I tell my roommate I don’t want to live with her again?
“My roommate wants to live with me again next year, but I don’t know how to tell her no. I don’t want to hurt her feelings!” You sweet thing, you’re too kind for your own good. I see this happen all the time. Your current roommate is so sweet and nice, but she drives you crazy. […]
My best friend is pulling away.
“It feels like my best friend is pulling away from me. She’s spending more time with the friends and less time with me. I’m hurt but obviously can’t say, “Stop spending time with other people.” I just want to feel included and like she still cares about me. But I feel like bringing anything up […]
Winter break: my parents are driving me crazy.
“I’ve only been home a few days and my parents are already driving me crazy.” Whether it’s your first or fourth winter break home, reentry to home life can always be a bit challenging. But let’s talk about why your parents are driving you crazy. 1. There is tension every time you make plans with friends […]
I want to be a leader.
“I want to be a leader.” I’ve heard this dozens of times. You were a major player, holding leadership positions, throughout high school, but now that you’ve gotten to college–you haven’t had the opportunity to make your mark, much less run for office in a student organization. I’ve been at a conference for the past […]
I’m so stressed out.
“I’m so stressed out I could die… or at least have a major mental breakdown.” I so remember this feeling. I’m not sure there is anything I can really say that is going to make you feel better, but I’m going to try. 1. You are not alone. EVERYONE feels like this during the end […]